One thing that I have ALWAYS been envious of is poeple who have life long friends!
I can say that it is one of the things that I promised myself my kids would have.
and one of the many reasons that prompted our move back to Chicago.
I know that my girls would have made friends anywhere they lived but I would have hated to uproot them after a couple of good bonding years with friends.
I am lucky, so so very lucky that some of my best friends had kids at the same time as me.
It was not planned but I'm sure glad it worked out that way.
The girls,
that now includes Riley-roo.
She brings her own style to the party mix!
Making themselves quite at home at Starbucks.
I can just imagine this scene in 10 years.
Up to no good
(the bunk beds are no longer bunked due to an episode on one of our Saturdays)
These 5- Ethan, Mimi, Marlo, Rook, and Riley
(Rooky is not pictured!)
will always have each other, even if they go to different schools
and we live on different blocks.
You all are stuck!
Why?
Because your parents all ADORE each other!
In the past, Saturday nights involved,
drinking, hanging with the "gang" and getting into trouble
Now most Saturdays
we spend drinking beers and watching our kids hang and get into trouble.
( and destroy Julie's house)
I love those kids like my own and I know my pals love mine!
And usually at least one parent is halfway paying attention, I mean "parenting".
The kids know that all the adults have time-out power
and they all have the power to grant permission.
It is like our own little commune,
for at least one day a week.
For this I am thankful,
for this I feel blessed!